12
thought-provoking questions
for
self-discovery
Before answering these questions, take time to reflect quietly. Write down your thoughts and feelings, then revisit them to track your growth and adjust your development path.
Trust your intuition, as the answers are within you, and this guide will help you uncover them for deeper self-awareness.
1.
What are the three core values that guide your choices and actions?
Reflect on the principles that shape your life and their significance to you.
2.
When do you feel most true to yourself and in harmony?
Reflect on the moments when you experience a profound sense of authenticity and tranquility.
3.
What experiences or accomplishments have brought you the greatest joy?
Remember those epic moments that made you puff up with pride and do a little happy dance!
4.
What strengths do others perceive in you, and how do you view them?
Embrace and cherish your unique strengths, combining your own ideas with feedback from others.
5.
If you had to sum yourself up in a fabulous trio of words, what would they be?
Choose words that encapsulate your essence and character.
6.
What legacy do you want to leave behind, and what actions are you taking today to align with that vision?
Define your desired legacy and begin to strategize its creation.
7.
What does success mean to you? Are you chasing someone else’s definition or your own?
Define your own success, free from the constraints of societal norms.
8.
What is the wild dream hidden away in the attic of your thoughts, silenced by the noise of fear and uncertainty?
Take a peek at that dream you’ve been avoiding and have a heart-to-heart with yourself about you’ve been doing that! What is one bold goal you have been putting off, and why? What’s the first step you could take today?
Assess patterns that block your growth and brainstorm ways to surpass them.
9.
How would you envision your ideal self? How would your life change if you fully embraced your worth and potential?
Picture the person you aspire to be and the traits that define that version of you.
10.
What problems are you most capable of solving for other people?
Think about the challenges others often come to you for help with. What do people naturally seek your advice or support on? These could be areas where your skills, knowledge, or empathy shine. Now, reflect on how solving these problems brings out your strengths, and consider how you can leverage these abilities more intentionally to make an impact.
11.
Where in your life are you not honouring your values, and what would it look like if you did?
Take a moment to identify where there is a gap between your actions and your core beliefs. Is there a situation or relationship where you feel out of alignment with what truly matters to you? Imagine how it would feel to make choices that are fully in line with your values. What changes would you need to make, and how would living in alignment bring you greater peace and fulfillment?
12.
What story are you telling yourself that no longer serves you, and how can you rewrite it with compassion?
We all carry narratives about ourselves that may hold us back. What’s the limiting story you’ve been repeating—perhaps about your worth, abilities, or potential? Now, picture yourself rewriting that story with kindness and understanding. How would the new version empower you to move forward with more confidence and self-compassion?
If you find yourself unable to answer these questions, that’s completely normal. Feeling blocked or unsure is just part of the self-discovery journey. New insights often come when we have the right support and guidance, sometimes all it takes is a fresh perspective to help us uncover our true selves and take meaningful action. I would be honored to walk this path with you. Let’s find those answers together.